#108 It will help me if….

We all have those people around us that want to help us. The problem is they sometimes don’t help us the way we want them to. Guess what? They are not mind readers and probably have no idea that what they are doing isn’t helping you.

That’s where this week’s challenge is about. I challenge you to have the conversations with the people around you. Start with “It will help me if…” followed by what you want them to do. Not only will they be happy you told them, they will feel like they are really supporting you.

In the magic journal you made a few weeks ago, I want you to write a list of things that will help you meet your goals or even just help you be able to rest and relax a little bit. Use this list to have the conversations with the people around you that support you.

Remember that people want to help. They can’t read your mind so you have to actually tell them what you need.